Magic Of Making Up Review

Is it me or is it getting more difficult to be able to spot legitimate information from all the other scams that are out there?  It's a rhetorical question.  (I know the answer is YES).

You know how I know the answer is yes? Because I've personally been scammed by the seemingly endless amounts of scam websites.

The internet is a wonderful thing, but when it comes to misinformation, HOLY COW!! is there are a lot of it online.  The internet is filled with products that promise one thing and deliver something less than stellar.

So, you may be wondering, why I'm rambling about this.  Well......first of all I am admittedly a little bitter.  About a year ago, I was ungraciously dumped by my girlfriend, and I realized there are a lot of so called "relationship experts" online who don't know the first thing about............RELATIONSHIPS!!!  

I'm not going to bore with you with the details, but needless to say I was not a great boyfriend and I cheated on her.  She found out about it, and dumped me faster than I can say "I'm sorry".

In retrospect, obviously I can't blame her for doing that.  I was completely at fault.  I took her for granted and I made a stupid mistake.  It wasn't until she gave me the axe that I realized how much she meant to me.  I had taken her for granted, and now I had to live with the consequences of my actions.

For that first month after the break up, I was basically a train wreck.  You know that old fashioned saying "You don't know what you got until it's gone?"

Well....it may be a total cliche', but it's exactly what I was feeling at the time.  I felt as if my life did a complete 180 degree turn. 

Before the breakup, I was happy guy with a woman that I loved and all of a sudden, I had to struggle to find the motivation to take a shower or get out of bed and go to work.

It was not a pretty sight.  I was completely fixated on getting her back.  In retrospect, I think the problem was that I was fixated.  Fixation leads to obsession, and that was a line that was walking.

By cheating on her, I had really done something so terrible that I couldn't figure out what I could possibly do to make amends and get her back.  I racked my brain and I just couldn't figure out the blueprint.

It's funny because I had a friend who was going through the same exact thing as I was at that time.  He didn't cheat on his girlfriend but she recently dumped him.

It was such a sad sight to see.  When we were around each other.  We looked like a perfect advertisement for anti-depressants.

In one sense, it was great because I knew I wasn't alone in this.  There was somebody who was going through the same pain as I was. 

But just because I had a friend to share my tears with, didn't magically mean I was going to get back together with my girlfriend.

I Followed A Lot Of "Experts" Advice

Needless to say, when you are in the kind of situation that I was in, you were going to listen to anybody that was willing to give you advice.

I went online and I bought books, I went to chat rooms, I went to forums.  You name it.....I probably did it.

You'd think with all this "information" I was getting, I would be able to have no problem getting back together with my girlfriend. Ummm......not exactly. 

It certainly wasn't from a lack of effort.  I tried a few different things, and honestly I think it made it worse.  One piece of advice that really backfired was when I tried to act like a Casanova.

(This is really embarrassing to admit) I went to her place with a tuxedo on and flowers in my hand. Needless to say, she looked at me like I had completely lost my mind.  I don't think I have to tell you that it did not work (btw....don't do this, if you were thinking about it).

Hey......what can I say??? People do stupid things when they are in love!! 

I couldn't help but notice that all of the advice that I was getting from these so-called experts was causing my fixation to increase. 

So, not only was I not getting anywhere with my attempted reconciliation, but every failed attempt at wooing my ex girlfriend left me feeling more and more depressed. 

My friend and I were trying to come up with ideas for a game plan that we could use.  That's why we were buying these books and scouring for any piece of advise that we could get our hands on.

But after all that trouble, we were back in the same place we started off at. 

The only difference was that I was going to throw in the towel and give up, while he was still going to look for the magical formula to get her ex back. 

He naturally told me "not to give up".  But it was so painful for me, that I decided it was better not to get my hopes up.

One Day, I Got An Email

A couple of weeks later, I get an email from my friend.  In his email, he was telling me about a book he bought online, giving him a step-by-step process on how to get back with an ex.

At this point in time, I  had completely resigned to the fact that my relationship with my girlfriend was over, and there wasn't going to be anything I can do about it.

Obviously, I wasn't thrilled about it, but I figured "if I don't try to get past this, I'll never get better." 

So when I started reading the email, I immediately rolled my eyes, because this was the last thing I wanted to deal with.  I didn't want to get my hopes up again. 

I didn't want to relive the pain.  I figured it was better to live this numb-like experience than invest my emotions on another get back with my ex scheme.

Anyways, I was reading the email.  He told me the site was called Magic Of making Up. He said that he purchased it and the advice the book was offering was much different than what we were using.

I remember I even smirked when I read the name. It sounded so ridiculously cheesy. 

If my friend was in the room when I was reading the email, I would have turned to him and say......."Are you freakin' kidding me, I'm not buying this crap".

I can just picture him saying "don't be so judgmental", which is something I do have a tendency of being, especially at that time, because I was just in a general bad mood, all the time.

But I figured....."what the hell".  The least I can do is look at the Magic Of making Up website.

At first glance, the site looked pretty plain, and I wasn't that impressed. Of course, I read the usual sales pitch that all these sites seem to have.

All of them are going to tell you the same thing.  I'll get your ex back in (fill in the blank) days or They'll be begging you back.

That kind of stuff doesn't impress me. After all, they are trying to sell you something, right?

So, basically I wasn't impressed. But then again, I wasn't in the best frame of mind. So, I closed the website and went on with my day.

That evening I get a call from my friend.  I knew what he wanted to talk about, and I REALLY didn't want to discuss it.

But he did. He asked me if went to the site and if I read about the sales page?  I told him yes, but I quickly tried to change the subject.  

He kept on telling me that the advice he was getting from the book was so much different than what we were doing. I honestly didn't want to hear any of it, but he was SO damn persistent.

Eventually I just cut him off, and said "look, I'll only consider it, if you make any progress with your ex. Until then, I REALLY don't want to talk about it."

He can kind of sense that I wasn't in the mood for this.  (I did make it kind of obvious.)

So, eventually we got off the phone with one another, and honestly I thought it would be the last time we talked to each other about this subject.

About A Month Later

Ever since that phone call, my friend and I would talk.  But never about relationships.  Honestly, I didn't want to hear about anybody's relationship at that time, with the way that I was feeling.

We would talk about general things like sports, movies, etc...

Anyways, I was watching the Dolphins-Jets football game with him.  (We're both Dolphins fans).  It was the last game of the season.  The Dolphins needed to win to get into the playoffs. 

They ended up winning an incredible game. We were so pumped!!!

We were both so happy. We hung out for a little while longer.  I don't know if it was because of the game or what, but I was in a really good mood.

So, I ended up asking how he's doing with his ex.  You could tell he was really stunned that I asked him about it, considering how stand-offish I've been about this subject.

He was telling me how things had improved.  They were actually going to get a cup of coffee tomorrow morning. They weren't back together yet, but they were taking the right steps.

I was really happy for him.  I honestly thought I would be jealous, but I was really glad that he was doing better.

I asked him "what turned it around"?  He told me it was the book that he purchased.  I asked what book?  (I honestly forgot all about it).

He told me it was the Magic Of making Up book.  In shock, I said "Are You Kidding me????"

He said, "yep.....I told you it was a lot different than what we were trying to do".

I sat there stunned.  I couldn't believe it.  The site looked so much like a scam to me. I didn't want to give him the benefit of the doubt, but it worked for him.

Later That Night

When he left my place, I couldn't get over the fact that the book helped him.

As soon as he left, I rushed to my computer and went to the Magic Of making Up website.  This time I wasn't going to be so skeptical.

I noticed that the author (T.W. Jackson) put in a video on the home page. I pushed play, and listened to what he had to say.

It was really interesting. He was talking about the problem that most people have with reconciling with their ex (whether it be a man or a woman) is that they are too aggressive.

He was talking about using a more passive strategy to get back together with them.  In my mind, I couldn't get over the idea that I was smothering my ex, trying to get her back together with me. 

It started to dawn on me that I was being very abrasive and sometimes even confrontational in the methods that I was using to try to win her over.

It made perfect sense. Why on earth would she get back together with me if I am acting so clingy?  It began to become a lot clearer.   I couldn't believe that this was something that all these relationship experts didn't tell me about.

I have to admit that I was really tempted to buy it, but I was still a little hesitant. But I saw that it had an unconditional money back guarantee on the home page.  So, I figured why not?

If it doesn't work out, I'll just ask for my money back, and that will be that.  So I pulled out my credit card and bought the  Magic Of making Up book.    

What Happened?

As I started reading the book, my mind was puzzled. The advice that the author was offering was really unconventional.

It was going against my natural instincts and what everybody else was telling me.  As strange as it sounded though, since it was so different than what I was doing, I thought "hmm.......he may be on to something, here."

The advice given in the book was very meticulous.  Just about every possible scenario is covered in great detail in the Magic Of making Up book.

The writer has a really strong sense of how truly being subtle, whether its a word, body language, or a look can make all the difference in the world, when it comes to communicating what you want from your ex.

The book is very reasonable as far as expectations are concerned.  The book doesn't offer plans that will get your ex back in a week or anything like that.

It takes a long term commitment, and that was fine with me.  

I think the problem that I was having before is that I wanted to get my ex back in one night, and that's incredibly naive, and just not realistic.

It involves steps.  You've got to get the steps right.  It's like building a house.  You need the foundation first before you can start building the house, and living in it.

The Magic Of making Up provides that foundation to get your relationship back to where it used to be.  If you miss a step, the whole house is going to collapse.

Cut to about two months later, my girlfriend and I officially got back together. About 2 months after that, she moved in with me, and I have never been happier. 

So, Is The Book Worth It?

Obviously, with any kind of book that offers help of some kind, the results are going to be subjective.  However, I can only speak to you from my own experience.  The Magic Of making Up is an incredibly insightful book that helped me tremendously through a very tough time in my life.

I know that it can be extremely frustrating taking other people's advice only to find out that it didn't work out too well.  But the whole point of this website is to let you know that YES....there are people offering original, quality advice.

Not only, has the book helped me get my girlfriend back, but it's given me a lot more than just that.

I appreciate my girlfriend more than ever.   I realize one of the reasons that I originally cheated on my girlfriend was that I really took her for granted.  I just assumed that she'd be there forever by my side, no matter how much of a knucklehead I was. 

I became very spoiled.  I didn't really earn her appreciation.  Those days are long gone.  I genuinely try to work in this relationship, and show her the appreciation she truly deserves. 

I've become more attractive to her. I don't know about you but when you are in a long term relationship, you tend to get a little lazier than when you were single.  This happens more often with guys than girls. 

When you were single, you ate healthier, you stayed in shape, exercised, etc...  In my case, as my relationship got older with my girlfriend, I just slowed down on doing those things.  

I gained some weight. I'd go days without shaving.  I was not as physically attractive, meanwhile she tried to stay really attractive for me.  Not to be shallow, but that is important in  a relationship.  You don't have to overdo it, but I really tried to make a conscious effort to be more physically attractive to her.

I've popped the question. I was the kind of person who never thought they would get married in a million years.  But about a month ago, I popped the question and she said yes!!! It's amazing where I am now compared to where I was about a year ago. 

I Decided To Write My Own Book

I was so inspired that I decided to write my own book.  The experience was so incredible for me that I wanted to give some pointers that worked for me that weren't covered in the Magic Of making Up which personally helped me to reconcile with my ex.

The book is simply called Winning Back Your Ex. I sell the book on my website for $17.

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